Monday, January 16, 2012

Did your relationship with your hubby change after baby?

After you have a baby your relationship with your husband is not like how it was before the baby. You are exhausted and tired. When you have a baby your life changes. The good thing is that you created a baby together. I understand how you feel. If your husband is a good man he will be patient with you and be a man with you. You won't be like this forever because this is just temporary situation. I don't think you should end this relationship because you had a baby and things are different. I know its hard for a woman but you have to understand that the baby has taken you away from him. He feels lonely and thats why his attitude has changed. I know that it is hard for you but be patient. You must talk to him and communicate your feelings to him. Remember this is a temporary situation. You don't need to think like this 'should i just compromise and live with him for my daughter's sake' because if u think like this you will end up resenting him. I know it is hard for you, but be positive. Stay Positive in your mind. This is just temporary. Tell him your feelings. Spend time with him as well as the baby. Let him also spend time with the baby and look after the baby while you do other things.You will get through this. Good luck.

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